another day another clucking female telling us all about the dangers of mgtow, a curious forum post has surfaced of a mother, dealing with her teenage newly mgtow son. the post, titled For mothers of sons who have abandoned them states the following.
I am new to this forum, though not new to the suffering that goes along with being the parent of a NC (no contact?…as I said, I’m new here)… I’m a writer and therefore researching is my forte. In trying to get a better understanding of how to deal with a son who almost overnight declared that he would no longer allow me to “manipulate” him, among other things. Has anyone every watched the Everybody Loves Raymond tv sitcom? Well, as much as I love Doris Robert’s overbearing mother character in that sitcom, I am the polar opposite of her– so when my son accused me of being manipulative of him as well as abusive and “evil”, I was astounded to say the least. It got worse from there…this was 3 or so years ago.
He stopped communicating with me, not altogether but only when he absolutely had to, and then was cold, distant and demeaning towards me. Just saying hello to him would elicite an irritated response of a scowl, a hand wave (like shooing away a fly) and a leave me alone, I’m busy. This went on for several years before I hit the jackpot. By that, I don’t mean that my relationship issue was solved, it wasn’t. BUT, it was explained, not by my son, but through my own research when I discovered something called MGTOW, an acronym for Men Going Their Own Way.
I of course can only speculate on the relationship between this boy and his mother, but it sounds like it sure as hell wasn’t mgtow that caused her son to cut contact with her, even while in the throes of teenaged rebellion, boys don’t usually cut off any and all contact and accuse their mothers of being not just manipulative but downright evil, something else was going on here, something that she’s not mentioning…
I want to warn any mother alienated and dealing with a NC son, that the alienation could be MGTOW caused. My research has confirmed that it is a HATE group as well as a CULT, though unlike other identified groups of this sort, so far there don’t seem to be any restrictions placed onto what this HATE CULT is doing and saying about women and MOTHERS. They encourage males to abandon the women in their lives, including their mothers, and they base their reasoning on what they call a woman’s nature, and biology to be parasitic to males (including their sons).
Hilarious. Once again the silly cult pejorative comes up, and this strong modern independent woman immediately needs to threaten to use government coercion to try to stop mgtow from doing what they do, she fucks up her relationship with her son?, better pass a law to fix it daddy government.
They are highly secretive and inform their male progenies to keep their alliance with MGTOW between themselves and the MGTOW bros. I was able to identify this group as what led to the complete breakdown of a relationship with my son because of the intense research I have done in this area and my ability to connect the dots between my son’s sudden rejection towards me, and his other behaviors as well as comments about women in general. This is a very fast and silently growing phenomenom though I suspect it to be linked to many acts of violence against young women today, as the hatred for women among the males of this movement is over-the-top.
Aaand there you have it, it took, what, a few paragraphs this time? Whenever women like this are confronted with mgtow, they take the path of least resistance and go straight for the ” they are potentially violent” smear, ironically when women like this do this they inadvertently expose themselves as the real violent ones, it’s a veiled threat of her desire to sic servants of women in the form of hired government thugs on a group of people (mgtow) who have absolutely no record of committing violent acts against anyone.
I am sorry for the negativity of this post… it’s certainly not going to be comforting to anyone dealing with rejection and alienation by a son. From my standpoint, I prefer to know the truth about things, no matter how difficult that truth may be. I suffer daily as a result of the change in my son and his rejection of me, as he is my only child and only family. Once I learned the truth however, about what is behind his rejection of me, I no longer question myself or beat myself up for things that he has accused me of, because now I know where it’s coming from and that it’s not me that is defective. I’m writing on this subject now with intent to publish to help others learn about this Hate Cult. I intend to share everything I know about this as well as any insights gained in how to deal with the misognous malignment as a woman, and as a mother.
I hope that at least someone will find this information helpful despite the dark nature of what I have written here. For those with the mental stamina to look into MGTOW, there is no lack of material on them from their standpoint. Though there may be much insight to gain, be forewarned, that it isn’t for the weak of heart. Much love to all of you suffering from the rejection of a beloved child, be it daughter or son. We are of the same heart.